Humans are very strange creature.......Human don't treasure people close to them when they are alive....or when still around....What's the point of only crying....when the person already pass away......
Granny has been bedridden for 4 yrs before she passed away....I believe is a release for her sufferings......and I am glad for her......
In the hospital and funeral...there are grandchildrens and relatives that I have never seen before or have only seen once in a blue moon......these people I should say are the people who don't care and are not filial.....
I remember.....when my grandmother is sick....and her elder son call up this particular son to visit my grandmother....he give the excuses..that he is not free..and do not want to care...."ask the other son to go and take care.".....
what crap is that...to think my grandmother dote on him a lot....yesterday at her death bed...he was there crying.....what's the point of only coming to see...when the person is at the last breadth.....and what's the point of crying....when the person is dying......
When a person is alive...a person should learn how to appreciate the person....and treat the person well...
Human just don't know how to appreciate the good things around them .....when they have it....and only grieve over things.....when things happen....
Talking...about funeral...my granny was a very nice person...she doesn't want to burden people financially and plan a sum of money for her own wake.....people should really appreciate her thoughts....but some of the children and grandchildren.....are very funny....they want to include their grandchildren and great grandchildren name in the obituaries......but never hear any of them...going to chip in ....for the expenses...incurred...
The joke...is some of the great grandchildren.....I think have never even visit my granny before....and the children and granchildren...never even visit my granny once a year.....
So what is the use...of having all these glamourous......name on obituaries when they didnt even treat my grandmother well.....when she is alive......
sigh.....just hope that my Granny will rest in peace.......
2 comments:
Many people take things and the people around us forgranted. Often, we procrastinate and say "there is always tomorrow" but little do we realise that Tomorrow never comes. So be glad you have Today, and take heart that you cared and loved and made a difference.
Yeah, it's really funny how pple always seem to take for granted the things they have, may it be friends, family, health and wealth..
Take care Cat..
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