It's a brand new week........and last Friday was my Granny's cremation.....I think that was a total of about 120 children, granchildren and great grandchildren that was at the wake.....4 generation in total.....some people was crying.........but I don't understand.... why they cried......especially..they have never even visit my granny when she was alive...... I could only think of 2 reasons...they cry
1) Cried becuase they feel sad for the departure of their loves ones....(101% confirm impossible)
2) Cried because...they feel guilty or feel bad..that they did not treasure their loves ones or didn't bother to see or care for them when they are still alive...
Well..of course their so many ailen face(grandchildren, great granchildren)..that I have never seen before in my whole life...Guess...is the first time..and should be the last time....I will see them.....Anyway who cares....I think Granny must be thinking..who are these people as well.....
Life is really a irony.......even during Chinese New Year or Granny's big birthday celebration....not as many people turn up...only on a sorrowful event...then these so call.....alien face turn up......
Guess the morale of the story...is to treasure people around you when they are still around......Coz i believe in Karma...and Whatever goes around comes around ......
************That close the chapter of my Granny's life story**********
Have a good rest over the weekend...sleeping and sleeping....I been informed that...there is going to be a performance...on 3rd Oct at Esplanade....and I be participaing....Hehe....Finally I can realise my dream of performing at Esplanade....before I retired....from the Art performance...world......
2 comments:
Your words would definitely touch your Granny deeply if she had chance to read it. However, the fact is that she can never read it so hopefully those people who have not treated her well will have chance to read your blog and may change their thinking and the way they treat others.
Anyway, let's look forward. I'm looking forward to see your performance in Esplanade.
Sadly, you won't join me in PA. Always wish you were there so you could be my sister :)
Wow, sounds good.. It's a pity I can't be there to see you perform at the Esplanade. It must give you quite a buzz! :)
With regards to your granny, really, the families in sg are not as closely knitted as they used to be. Somehow along the way, people just got busy with their work, their families.. Although I know that this shouldn't be an excuse. I don't know the situation you have in the past with them but I guess even if they get a chance to read your blog, there's a possibility that they might not change anyway.
With that, yes, take time to grief but then move on. :) Cos I think that's what your Granny knows your heart and wishes that for you too.
Take care! :)
Post a Comment